@chuckiepoo1 She used 1 finger for quite maybe 4 months, then the second finger. Which she can really put some pressure on prostate and occasionally with 2 fingers she can gently tap on prostate and drive you crazy with pleasure. Sometimes she'll tap and push with other hand on perineum. Out of this world feeling. It was kinda then when massage went from just peeing easier to adding pleasure. I always liked a vibrator on penis and testicles she teased with that for awhile and inserted that with various settings. Low setting with curved tip directly on prostate and hold it still again tremendous sensation. I always clean myself out there is no mess , I'm positive she would do none of this dirty. I wouldn't either. Rubber gloves lots of lube. It works for me plus I get medical relief peeing and we have incorporated a sexual aspect to it. I will say I felt a lot of guilt and shame at the beginning not so much now it's been about 2 years of this activity. I'm wife used to ask me what was wrong with me about an hour after we were done and I told her I would feel guilty and ashamed. Guess because I was starting to feel pleasure though it was wrong but It isn't. I enjoyed it. Got massage Thursday night peeing had been pretty good lately, she said it's been awhile should take care of you I said I suppose. Next day I peed really easy and only a couple times all day, then I realized she did me last night. Pee like a teenager I still dribble some at the end and slow to start sometimes. Don't know how to fix that. Every pair of underwear I have have pee stains guess that is life. Be married 40 years in a couple months.