Like many on this board, aging shocked the sh*t out of me! A "How To" manual would certainly be helpful. It's interesting that the individuals who were beautiful in their younger years are having a very difficult time adjusting to aging and the changes in their appearance; but these were the ones who placed a priority on their looks and didn't cultivate other aspects of their lives. After much soul searching and self-examination, it occurred to me that these are the years we can honestly enjoy ourselves, be ourselves, don't worry what anyone thinks, explore what makes US happy and do what WE want. There's a poem titled "Warning" by Jenny Joseph and it starts out,
"When I am an old woman I shall wear purple . . . With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me." That's my new attitude; I'm no longer concerned with "being in style," wearing the current trends or, more importantly, what people think of me. Shop your closet. If you're like me you've got a wonderful and interesting collection of clothing, handbags, scarves and jewelry. Wear them. And enjoy the looks you'll get . . . and believe me, you'll get looks ranging from, "Look at that old bat. Who does she think she is, wearing an outfit like that???" to envy from others wishing they had the nerve to wear that outfit. I've had YOUNG women, (girls actually) come up to me and compliment me on my outfit, jewelry, etc. Be unique and be you. I also enjoy "thrifting" and find interesting clothing and other items at our local thrift stores. And you know all that great costume jewelry we've saved all these years? Yes, it's back in style so pin it on a denim jacket, sweater or shirt. Instead of staying in - GET OUT THERE! There's so much to do out there and a lot of it is free for us "seniors." Concerts, workshops, classes, seminars, theatre, church activities etc. And honestly, understand you'll never look like you did 20 or 30 years ago. So quit looking back and look forward because those days are gone, however focus on skincare, your eyebrows (so important as we age) and maybe get a makeover at one of the department stores. Our skin changes, so the make up we've been using isn't appropriate for our skin anymore. The important thing is to live life for yourself. Many of us have cared for children, parents and husbands, so consider this YOUR TIME. Believe me, it's liberating. And I'm gonna wear purple, whenever and wherever I please!