Thank you to all who have replied to this post.
We are meeting soon with a "Senior Living" consultant, who operates like a real estate agent for all retirement homes in our area ( with no obligation) She will assess our needs, give advice , book appointments to visit AND take us to see places, handle paperwork, etc..
Before proceeding, I will meet with our financial planner to determine what we can afford. 🤞
A big step , but I am encouraged by all of you on this site.