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Hello happilyalive,
I have been absent from our Connect blog for about six weeks so I apolgize for commenting so late. "Every second counts and so we strive to make a difference in each of those seconds." Your reference pertaining to resilency, hope, determination and trust is powerful advice toward maintaing ones mental health.
My gal and I endured my colon cancer in 1999, I was 54 years then and now I am 80. Following the first surgery which removed my entire colon, some large intestine parts and left me with a colostomy. After that, we experienced 11 surgical procedures to "unblock" my intestines by removing the radiation enteritis. It was close to two years before we felt normal again. However, our attitudes carried us through. Itwas what it was: you just sink or swim. We chose to swin and in the third year of recovery, we purchased two, three wheel recumbent bicycles. From then and through another recovery for my triple bypass, we ride every day weather permitting. Not counting the 6300 miles of cycling when we were in school, we now have ridden over 7,893 miles since 1999.
Yes your saying is so true and we appreciate your sharing it with us. One minute, one hour, one day at the time. If your alive your living and regardless the struggles, we like the alive part. Kepp on keeping on.
Best this year, Jo free

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@jofree and other friends:
I have been absent for several weeks after a severe chest infection (common in ALS) and two weeks in hospital. I am feeling better day by day, and re-discovering and enjoying the everyday simple pleasures in life. As I write this, I can see the sunshine streaming through the window, and the bright green of the trees (it is summer in Australia). How marvellous is the beauty all around us, the taste of a fresh cup of coffee in the morning. I am lucky that my ALS symptoms are still mild, and I am able to sit around cafes with friends and get to the occasional concert, movie or play. If you are feeling down or distressed as you read this, please take a deep breath and try to think of all the good things in life, past and present. Old age has its issues, but it teaches us how to live a less stressful life, and spend our limited energy wisely. Thinking of all the people in the world facing the same challenges,
@ellu