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If non-nerve-sparing means never have sex again, I could live with that., I just want to get the additional test done and am thinking cut it out. If the best way non-nerve-sparing, so be it I am almost 79 and have had a good sex life. Would rather watch and play with my grand and great grand children and spend more years with wonderful wife. I am still in good physical shape, walk several miles a day and lift weights. Been doing that since moving off the ranch and becoming a town person. Not overweight or anything, most people can't believe I am 78.
Also, I want to do what is best that it doesn't come back! I see lots of cases hat it does. Also, I really don't want to walk around peeing my pants. I think that is my biggest concern as I am out in public a lot.
Well, I am taking off now and take wonderful wife to a valentine dinner about 30 miles away.