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To get out of a "strange limbo," or to avoid being "checked out mentally," I try to find something that inspires a moment of joy or wonder everyday, realizing that it's the little things that count when one is an exhausted caregiver.
You may not be "overwhem[ed]" by Jesus or some other Christ figure, but you can still find wonder in everyday life no matter how draining, frustrating, and gut-wrenching it is to be a caregiver. Here's a daily meditiation for those of who believe:
"Let Jesus Overwhelm You with Wonder
By: Whitney Hopler
Bible Reading:
'As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were overwhelmed with wonder and ran to greet him.' - Mark 9:15, NIV
When you really look at Jesus, you see the wonder of God’s work in this world. In Mark 9:15, people caught a glimpse of Jesus, and they were overwhelmed with wonder and ran to greet him. They didn’t hesitate or worry about what others might say about their enthusiastic response. They simply let themselves be inspired with awe when they encountered Jesus.
It’s easy to lose a sense of wonder when you’re dealing with the stress of living in this fallen world. Responsibilities pile up and demand your attention. You get used to going through your routine, doing what needs to be done. You may be working so hard that you start to think about enjoying wonder as a luxury you can’t afford with your busy schedule. If so, your life will shrink down to the level of your to-do list. You’ll miss the greater perspective of the wonderful work Jesus is doing around you.
Don’t let that happen to you! Jesus hasn’t stopped working in amazing ways, just like he did during biblical times. Jesus is still inspiring people with awe on a regular basis. The question is: are you looking for him?
Wonder doesn’t always appear with dramatic miracles. Often, wonder happens through everyday miracles. You can find wonder in quiet yet powerful ways, like through a colorful sunset, someone’s act of kindness, or a sense of peace God gives you during a challenging situation. "
Wishing you better days ahead.
George's Wife