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First, thank you for the lovely photos.
Next, as luck would have it, I was at my monthly stroke group meeting, and today's topic was care for caregivers.
The salient points:
Good intentions aside, it's vital that you not sacrifice your own life. (Would you want your child to die caring for you?)
It is not selfish to take care of yourself, so don't feel guilty doing so.
It's also okay to ask for help, and just as okay to accept it when offered.
There are resources available for tasks large and small, from help with housework and meal prep to full-time care. Use whatever you can afford or arrange.
There's more, of course.
When I had a disabling stroke, my wife became my primary, secondary, and tertiary caregiver. I strive to help as much as I can, in as many ways as I can. But my case is different, since I am slowly improving.
My YouTube channel about my recovery journey is here:
https://m.youtube.com/@srlucado/videos
Be safe, take care of yourself, and may God aid you along the way.
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@scottrl Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. It means a lot to me, especially hearing from someone who is on the other side of the situation. It’s hard to find the balance in all of this, but I know you are right that there are resources and it’s ok to ask for help. I’m struggling mentally especially since feeling unwell myself.
I’m so glad you are recovering and you are under loving care. I know that attitude and faith play a large role in the recovery process. I need to let go and have more faith rather than stay in a fear anxious mode. I admire your strength and commitment to getting well and I wish you and your loved ones the best as you progress on your journey to a full recovery. I’m going to visit Youtube channel- Thank You!
❤️✨Here are a few more photos- winter-