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Questions about intercourse and incontinence after prostate surgery
Prostate Cancer | Last Active: Feb 9 3:28pm | Replies (16)Comment receiving replies
@topf Hello, I would tend to agree with this gentleman about the diagnosis being actually closer to “Climacturia!” However, I began to have something similar about 12-18 months this after my successful RALP in October of 2022.
When my wife and I started to engage in some fireolay, a clear liquid would drip from my penis. Not a lot of volume but more than one would feel comfortable with. It also changed the mood of our ensuing sexual encounter and sexual intercourse.
Having a damp cloth nearby for a quick clean up worked well and after the initial and only discharge stopped, that was it for the moment,
I did some research and found that there is something called “AROUSAL INCONTINENCE.”
It’s not actually urine but a combination of several fluids released by some of the organs related to your prostate area and surgery etc.
It was just a bit sticky but not too much. It was totally clear in color. Did not have any smell or odor. It was just weird and totally un expected. No physician or any other research I had done prior to my PALP procedure, (which was quite significant), never mentioned or discussed this kind of incontinence.
It was only after the fact and my personal experience if it that led me to do a deeper search and research on the subject. It has mostly gone away now but sometimes comes back.
It usually occurs as my erection gets firm enough for sexual intercourse and I start to get very sexually aroused in anticipation of being sexually stimulated and having various forms of sex with my wife.
I use TRIMIX a good deal of the time as my natural erection normally only gets me to about 80% of the stiffness and harness I need for reliable penetration. For those of you that don’t have any success with “ED PILLS,” I strongly recommend that you speak with your Urologist and try it. As a result, I know that I will be able to produce a nice firm erection whenever I want it after about 5-10 minutes following my penile injection.
The needles is very similar to what a diabetic would use for insulin.
Obviously, I prefer the totally normal erection without using the TRUMIX when I get it but it’s not reliable and I never know when it will occur. The TRIMIX is always reliable.
Best wishes.
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Do you find that the Trimix injections are quite variable in their outcome ? I can have the occasional not very good result at certain injection points, despite using the same dose ?
@philipsnowdon I to can get natural erections up to maybe 80% no way of knowing how long the last usually not long enough. I use Trimix 99 % of the time it just is a much better experience feels better. I stoped using left side to painfully. I not have an appointment set up with Doctor to see if I am willing to do the IPP . Have you every considered the IPP?
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@philipsnowdon Nearly there... this thing gets so complicated.
Urine during arousal - arousal incontinence
Urine during climax - climactruria
Thicker, clear liquid during arousal - Cowper's gland. That's normal.
Although the prostate & seminal vesicles are removed, the Cowper's gland stays.
So if you've had that before, you'll continue to experience that - maybe a little less often.
So much to get used to. If I'd only stuck to my original plan... if the biopsy confirmed cancer, I was just going to identify as a woman.
Dammit. Missed my chance.