I am so sorry to hear about your Daughter. We have a Son who has been Suicidal in the past. It is so hard and difficult. I will keep you and your Daughter in my prayers. Have you all tried NAMI yet? National Association of Mental Illness. They have support groups for young adults, adults, parents online and in person. Check into them if you haven't already done this. My Husband and I used NAMI and it was a big help and support. Our Son went into the hospital- he was 16 at the time and went to a Children's Hospital-inpatient and also tried an outpatient treatment center, however didn't like that at all. What about exercising, would she like to do yoga or pilates or Karate or something like that? What does she enjoy doing in her free time in the past, before drinking? Would she be willing to go into a hospital, have you asked her if she would be willing to work on herself? Deep breathing can help- check out meditation type videos on you tube or mindfulness videos on you tube. Maybe you all could do it together? Does she have a friend that could talk to her or a boyfriend that could talk to her? Our Son was in School as well at the time. Don't worry about the school situation, the hospitals know how to deal with the School. In patient treatment centers have school at the center for part of the day and the rest of the day they have groups/activities-therapy type groups. Ask if she would be willing to talk to someone at a treatment center about their schedule and how school is handled. There are treatment centers on their own not associated with a Hospital. Tell her your feelings and in a calm way, not yelling or when you are angry. She needs to feel your support and love. If you are religious, pray or read the bible together or seek help from a Minister or your church family. Does she read? if she does maybe take her to a book store or library to pick out a book-self help type book dealing with depression/anxiety. Does she like to write, if she does, buy her a special journal where she can write out her feelings or draw. There is a mental health response team associated with 911 and they came to our house to talk to our Son. You could see if she is open to having them come out. We are in Ohio and that is how it was handled here for our Son. Not sure that option is available in all states. Would be worth a call to find out or check into it online/non emergency phone call line for the police. Music is uplifting, turn on music in your home, whether on tv or buy her a radio or old style record player or she could get spotify or listen online too. I have a shower radio that I listen to in the shower, and I love it! Are you getting counseling, you may want to seek out help or a support group with NAMI. Been where you are and it is scary and very frustrating! Hope things improve and I am praying right now for you. Take care and God Bless you and your Daughter/family.