@nlou One of the first clues i had that my husband had cognitive decline was when he fell victim to aa computer scam and surrendered all of our banking information! We had to close all of our accounts and reopen new ones. This is a man who was an executive in a fortune 500 company and in charge of business systems! He now can hardly use his laptop without getting extremely agitated because it keep "losing his messages" deleting his calendar, etc Finally when he asked me how to send an attachment, I knew we had to do something. It is sad for all of us in the family, but for me to watch him struggle with things that were second nature to him a few years ago, he is so changed; I mourn that.