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Yes. My wife (with 7-8 years into MCI diagnosis) was a nightly wine drinker for years, but it has increased as her disease progresses. Her poor short term memory worsens with the first drink. She has stated she has not desire to stop drinking (I stopped 5 years ago) because it's her only pleasure and her prognosis is so bad. There is no reaoning with her. Once or twice a week she goes into a blackout and turns into a very confrontational person and threatens to divorce me or to move into the guest bedroom. An hour later she may be loving and has not memory of the other personality. It's hard to listen to, but it's worse if I engage her. I could try to take her wine away, but she would get it on her own and she becomes belligerent if I mention her drinking. You have my sympathy and empathy.

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My husband was diagnosed with early stage Alzheimer’s 15 months ago at Mayo. His doctors have told him to stop or at least limit his drinking but he won’t. He at times feels bad and asks me to help him limit his drinking but when I do, he gets angry and says I don’t love him. I’m tempted to try to take all the alcohol away, but he’ll get more. I’ve given up but it also makes me sad. Selfishly I want him to control his drinking so he won’t progress to later stages of Alzheimer’s more quickly , but I don’t think he really cares.

@wctdoc1943 I’ve been mixing FRE alcohol removed Cabernet wine with
My wife’s regular Cabernet for over a year. It works for her. She still gets her favorite wine with half the alcohol content.