Sorry Ray, rather than telling you I'm a born loser, I'll just tell you I haven't figured it out either 🙃. I do have my Friday morning coffees with my old coworkers and I sometimes struggle carrying a large box of donuts I take with a special one to get me past the receptionist. She always lets me know if the owner's dogs are around so I can take the direct route to the breakroom instead of going by my friends office first. I have started buying 2 smaller boxes that are easier to carry than the one large one. I used to love meeting friends for dinner at different restaurants around the area but had to give that up unless we can make it a lunch meetup. 7pm is when I start shutting down for the day and I also don't like driving at night.

If it's just a specific location that worse for folks with balance problems, it might be a technique to suggest a different place or something different or new that they might not have tried.