@tdabbotts Totally agree with the mental aspect of recovery. I’m 60 years old and 6 months out from nerve sparing RARP. I resumed sexual activity at 6 weeks, but it wasn’t until I got past my fixed mindset that ejaculation was the goal of masturbation and intercourse that I was able to enjoy both.

Also at 6 weeks, my urologist asked if I was waking up with erections. I wasn’t, so he prescribed daily Cialis 5mg (in addition to Viagra as needed) and said to “coax it if necessary for daily penile rehab.” Between that and changing my mindset, I’ve been experiencing very intense and pleasurable orgasms with lots of fluid from my Cowper’s glands.