@billybwbf2
There is video by a physician admonishing men that women can be made love to often to greater effect without penetration.
From another perspective, likely, sex is not the most important aspect of your relationship with your wife. The potency of sex is in the closeness the careful attention and expressions of caring.
Still there are ways of managing possible recovery that may be available to you with improvement often seen over 1 to , aided by penile rehabilitation; medications Viagra, injections, vacuum devices which can keep penile tissues healthy,
https://www.ucsfhealth.org/education/patient-guide-to-penile-injections
There are past post on the subject, but I think you'll hear more.
The silence is because your question is buried under a different question.