I can definitely understand what you’re going through however, Colleen has some positive points that I can only second.
I am a Vulvar melanoma survivor for three years now. I had radiation and immunotherapy and negative scans and exams since.

I’m glad that you have kept up all of your follow up and that a plan is getting in place to help you

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you’ll be able to get back to us with a definitive plan moving forward
All the best