@piperleah its so hard for our loved ones to really understand till they are lying in a uncomfortable sofa, couch, bed hard as a rock thing taking turns watching over you every night and taking shifts as to whos up next. they need to watch some videos now so if and when the time comes they dont shy away or cant handle things as they are meant to do. i was lucky first go around and it was costly on family, taxed their life styles and energy and so much more, my best advice is get connected in prayer chains and group prayer chains , they really work. I'm sending you a prayer now and good vibes-------------sent. have a blessed evening