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96 YO Mother fall questions

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I am sad reading about your mum's predicament. My soon-to-be 96 dad is in the same boat. He has used a walker since a bad fall 16 months ago that left him with two crushed vertebrae. Just today, I took him to emerg because he can't poop. They did workups, and found that he has two collapsed disks in addition to those two broken vertebrae. He's in abject pain, and his bowels are rebelling. Now he needs opioids to numb the pain, which also encourage constipation. A lose-lose. Plus the opioid is with Tylenol, so bad for the liver.

You mum will continue to fall. Whether it's a slipping vestibular system, dehydration, low sodium (very common in seniors, also called 'hyponatremia'), low pulse needing a pacemaker, or a pacemaker that needs reprogramming, or low blood pressure when standing (vasovagal syncope or 'postural hypotension'), or just that her inevitable and inexorable loss of muscle mass and sensation will make her slide and shuffle her toes more, meaning she'll stumble more often over those throw rugs..........................................................do you see where this is going?

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@gloaming Wow, so much information. You've hit the nail on the head. Her pulse is great and she's due to get a new battery in a few months. We've been seeing this coming is also spot on. In some ways I feel it's inevitable she'll fight to the end to stay in her home and will be forced to do whatever's necessary. I've seen my mother in law and father in law die in different circumstances and I think back about how we have some ability to manage aging but the helplessness of getting really old is enough to make getting back to sleep after a trip to the bathroom, difficult. At least it has the last few nights.
I also have had back surgeries and chronic pain. Thanks so much for your helpful comments. I'll be sharing all the comments with my wife. She's so good.