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@colleenyoung Thank you for the advice. I have talked to him many times, but i was hard for him to go early on. Now he is thinking about it. I have not put any blame on him. Yet the fact that he’s talking about another woman without saying it he’s putting the blame on me as f it can’t be him

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@helplesshurting, I agree. He may be putting the blame on you as a way of trying to deflect feeling less of man or blaming himself. No one is to blame. There is no fault. I'm glad that he's thinking about talking with a doctor or a fertility specialist AND with you.