thank you for the quote, I've made my mind up to do without my sister, its years of abuse by her its time to cut the cord as they say

@misdeejon42 Stay in touch. You are among friends here.
Rosemary

I wrote a 3 page letter to my sister telling her that I loved her but couldn't deal with her I haven't heard anything back but I said goodby to her and hope that she is finally happy to have gotten rid of me. I think down deep she hates me but have no idea why.

@misdeejon42, Now that you have acted on your decision, How are you feeling? You had mentioned that your blood pressure had gone up and I am guessing that that is your body's way of reacting to the stress of all of this.

I have learned that unanswered questions, like "Why" are very difficult. I am the kind of person who likes to have an answer, a reason. But fortunately or unfortunately, often there is no answer or reason that makes sense. For me, that is where the strength of my particular faith background takes over.

I sincerely hope that you continue to develop and enjoy your friendships outside the family. And I hope that your health issues that you have mentioned are getting under control.

Hugs,
Rosemary

I'm trying to get my pressure down, every day its a little better, I hated doing it that way but she didn't leave me any choice, I have to consider my health, thank you for getting back to me. dottie