@rwdixon4 Hi Bob, while I haven't had the extensive back surgery that you will be having, but from your first back surgery, you probably recall that you were not allowed to bend and twist and that makes daily living a little difficult when it comes taking care of your needs. Some patients have risers on the toilet to make it easier to disengage, grabber things for picking up objects from the floor, elastic laces in your shoes so they just slip on, have your comfy clothes clean and easily reachable (mine was in plastic bins next to the bed). Get all your bills paid early because that is easy to forget when you don't feel well.

You won't be allowed to drive for awhile and your surgeon needs to clear you for that. If you try things now without being able to bend and twist, that may give you some insight. You are going to be exhausted as your body diverts it's energy to healing and that can go on a long time. You will just want to sleep and you should, so that means don't exert yourself with household chores. Someone else can help with that.

If there is any ice or snow where you live, you'll need to keep away from it and not risk a fall while you are healing. You may qualify for some visiting nurses if you need help showering, etc. That is something to ask about. If you were recovering in the hospital you would have assistance with any of this. You may want a shower bench or chair to sit on because you'll be really tired and just bathing is enough to require a nap afterward.

A lot of patients talk about getting prepared with these suggestions. I also had to be cleared to drive and I didn't for about 4 months. My husband did everything and I just slept, watched TV, and he brought my meals to me.

Your surgeon's nurse will probably be able to give you some good tips, so go ahead and ask about any concerns.