For me, I bought small packages of pads and briefs first to see what I preferred and what worked best for me. Had my RARP at the beginning of Oct 2025. During the catheter and right after removal I used Depends briefs , as they were readily available. Wore the briefs with the catheter to catch leaks and they largely stopped the tube from moving around, which was uncomfortable. I wore max absorbent pads in briefs initially after the leaks slowed. I prefer the Tena brand. More comfortable and better shape. I order those on Amazon. Light pads now. Hard to find in stores. As was mentioned previously, we bought puppy pads after a recommendation on the forum. They worked great for putting down on the bed, easy chair, and car, as I was worried about leaks. Only used the puppy pads for about a month after surgery. I wore loose sweat pants home from the surgery and throughout recovery. Best in the new year.