@happilyalive
I was inspired by your post to write to you this morning from Melbourne, Australia. I am also elderly, and have two medical diagnoses, one of which is terminal. It is awful to feel your body failing while your mind is still full of things you wish you could do. I find that the only way to survive is to take one day at a time, and try to value and appreciate the little things in life which we probably didn't notice when we were young and rushing around with our busy lives. It is early summer in Mebourne, and the Jacaranda trees (do you have them in the States?) are in full bloom. They are like clouds of mauve blossoms reaching up into the sky, and whenever I see one my heart is full of joy. I also try to do at least one good thing for a friend or the community each day. Very simple, little things like sending someone a card or reaching out on the phone. We are all in this strange thing called 'life' together. I wish you and your husband well, and feel for you in your struggles. Please enjoy a joyous and peaceful festive season.
Very best wishes, @ellu