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4 plus years into Prostate Cancer experience. Had three chemo treatments, two year interlude, radiation directly to. prostate (20 treatments) three years ago, and in February 2025 took Pluvicto - two treatments. Radiation irritated (caused?) fissure and ulcers in rectum. EXTREME pain and pressure. NO relief. Oncologist sent me to colorectal sturgeon to remove irritant (stool passing over fissure and ulcer and irritating them) and of course the surgeon recommended surgery - divert the bowel and eliminate the problem. So, I submitted to a surgery five weeks ago and now have a colostomy bag, etc. for the rest of my life. STill have pain, pressure, and extreme discomfort and pressure.

Problem is that they are still 'practicing,' and two things: (1) they do NOT tell you all the side effectss, and when confronted, the radioactive docs deny any responsibility while (2) every article on the net and in medical communication says that radiation proctitis is a direct result of more radiation, and is irritated by the same drugs they prescribe to manage the pain. =

Instead of curing the problem which they created, the system prescribes more strrong narcotics, more frequently, and the docs get their prescription kickbacks, etc. and patients suffer.

My two cents: remove the prostate and never let them radiate you. There are many pleasurable ways to make love, not just one, and it sounds cold, but consider their situation. The docs cannot do anything that the insurance. ompanies won't pay for, or do it in the prescribed sequence, and NO ONE HAS THE PATIENT'S WELL BEING AS FIRST PRIORITY.

For months now all focus of my treatment has been on pain managment and keeping me drugged - meanwhile, the cancer grows and spreads and we talk about 'will this work?' "Lets try this?'

Praying you have wisdom, a doctor not interested in only making money and tikking off boxes. but in seeing you healed fully, and a strong support system for you. "Fight, fight, fight.'

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I’m really disappointed to hear your problems you’ve had as a result of radiation. I have heard of the problem you are having a couple of times, but the vast majority of people have no long term problems with radiation after having surgery. I had to have it 3 1/2 years after surgery, 8+ weeks of radiation, Had no side effects until about five years later when I started having incontinence problems. Many people have Urinary issues for a few months some may have rectal issues like diarrhea, But I’ve actually only heard of one person with fissures.

There are a lot of treatments for fissures and ulcers in rectum. They even use Botox injections.
I did a search for “ what can be done to treat fissure and ulcers in rectum” And it came up with a lot of recommendations. Did you try a bunch of different things for a couple of years before you had the surgery? I’m asking Because I would like to pass on that information to other people if they have that problem. I’m not surprised you are bitter about your treatment so far.

Hopefully your prostate cancer be treated to the point where you are in remission for a long time.

@michaelbryan6998 So sorry you are going thru this- it sounds absolutely awful. I do have a question, however; why does this colostomy have to be permanent? Can’t it be reversed once the fissure and rectum heal? That should happen but the timeline varies for each individual. Best,
Phil