No erection after 5 years after radical prostatectomy
I chose not to do the Davinci radical prostatectomy surgery but instead went with a well known urologist that insisted tactile was important during a nerve sparring radical prostatectomy. It's been 5 years as of January 2, 2020 and still not able to get an erection without a shot. Has anyone else had this experience?
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@koji480 This is on a light side...a friend of mine saw his doctor and he asked my friend " so are you still having sex" my friends reply was " you mean with myself or someone else"...men...we can't help it can we...
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2 Reactions@koji480 I agree...I've never had any kind of erection in now almost 6 years...but I can have an orgasm...sadly mostly on my own and not with my wife...but I'll keep trying with the BiMix...
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3 Reactions@rlpostrp The reason is that “having been preserved during the surgery” is medical-speak and can mean different things.
Even the phrase “nerve-sparing” needs to be discussed thoroughly — Is it 100% of both nerve bundles? 100% of one and 0% of the other? 75%/25%? 50/50? 25% of each? 10% of each? Or some other %? Even touching and moving the nerves damages them. The surgeon should have discussed the possibility with you.
Did you specifically have “nerve-sparing surgery?” Or just standard surgery and he would try to save some nerves?
It should be spelled out in the report.
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1 Reaction@onestepmore Incontinence is different and if is the main concern has a specialized surgery called “retzius-sparing” to minimize the risk.
If the main concern is ED, the specialized surgery is called “nerve-sparing” surgery. It’s different from standard surgery where they’ll make an attempt to save the nerves.
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1 Reaction@koji480 How ??? Hard to believe
@brianjarvis My doctor called it nerve sparring surgery...he also said the tactile touch of a human is better than the robotic...in his opinion...but I've never been able to have an erection on my own without a shot
@onestepmore I’ve heard others say the same thing, that “the tactile touch of a human is better than the robotic…”. However, after hundreds (thousands?) of procedures, they say that experience makes up for it.
I found this presentation helpful. It’s a 2023 presentation out of Stanford University titled “Penile Rehab: Optimizing Recovery of Erectile Function after Prostate Cancer Treatment” —> https://youtu.be/aRp1NXjPGLE
(They first talk about how things are supposed to work “down there,” what goes wrong as a result of treatments, and then a variety of remedies.)
@onestepmore Have you looked into getting an IPP implant? I got one a year ago and my wife and I are both very pleased.
@graybeard46 I don’t want to get overly graphic on this site but do a search online and you should find some info. For me it involves pelvic pressure.
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1 Reaction@jimgaudette Thank you for letting me know you are pleased...after almost 6 years I need to investigate it more. How did you first look into an implant?...my name is Amos...I've been using Onestep for years and I don't know why on this site...we are all in the same boat