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Blaming and anger: How do you deal with it?

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@pamela78

Hang in there, Pamela. You made the right decision for you and your husband. It's time for you to self-care.

Does your husband have a will or trust? Is your name on the deed to to house? If you don't already have an attorney to protect your rights, you should think about getting one.

I wish you the best.

Hugs,
George's Wife

P.S. George has fallen at least 25 times in the last year but he has never seriouly hurt himself. If your husband comes back home, who knows whether he'll have another bad fall--and then blame you!

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@georgescraftjr Thank you. Yes, I have POA and all the documents are in order. My name is on the house and I own the car outright. I'm exhausted but all the advice I'm getting helps me know I'm doing the right thing. I watched a movie on TV last night--Blythe Danner was a woman with dementia--and her family were at odds about what to do. It showed just how difficult this is. I could relate.