@shmerdloff

I'm sorry to read about the loss of your life. Both of you were lucky that you were next to her when she made her transition; and you were lucky that you did not have to go through a "long goodbye"--like many of us have and are experiencing with regard to our spouse. (It' would have gut-wrenching for you watch your wife suffer so much, especially if you would have been helpless to ease her pain.)

Never give up hope on love--our purpose in life. If you loved your wife for all those years, you were meant to love. (Just pick your next dates more carefully. Go with your heart and not out of loneliness.)

My husband lost his wife, and was left with five children to raise. (Be thankful that your kids are grown.) He met me less than a year after her death, and we've been together for 30 years. Now, I am his caregiver. (He is 83, immobile, and has Alzheimer, Lewy Body dementia, vascular dementia and Parkinson's.)

May time and the support of all those who love you ease your pain. And may you continue to find joy in living your life. I'm sure that's what your wife would have wanted for you.

Blessings,
George's Wife