@tomf As I read your comments I felt as if I wrote it . I’m shy of 2 yrs since treatment and nothing is working for me I’ve given up on injections not working for me and I wanted implants but too risky if I can have the pleasure of an orgasm. I wake up each morning semi depressed looking at my attractive 67 year old wife and I’m 79 . We use to have sex 3 times a week but she would have been happy with once a week, maybe I’m being punished for being greedy and expecting too much from her since sex for her is no longer important. I shop, cook and do dishes every day for 40 yrs and ran a successful business for 50 yrs leaving the house at 4:30 every morning. I felt I deserved 15 minutes of pleasure 3 times a week and almost considered separation when a few years ago she implied once a week was it but fortunately we worked that out . The thought of never making love to a person you love for so long gives me great sadness. We hug and kiss each morning and night but it’s not the same . Wish I got got another type of illness but this one will hurt forever. Good luck to you and others missing an important part of your past life .