I am grade 2 with ILC. I too do not want treatment. People think I’m crazy. I am so happy to find someone else like me. I do not know what stage I am in. I have my first visit to the oncologist on Dec 15th. I will consider a lumpectomy but that’s it. I think it has spread because of all the little pains I have I am so tired and could sleep non stop. Is this normal?