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I posted a comment a while ago about ageing and serious illness (hi @arollingf). I am 72, have had pipolar disotrder since my teens, and have recently been diagnosed with ALS. At the moment I am quite well - I am in the early stages of ALS and my bipolar disorder is well under control with medication. And I am getting older. It is hard to work out sometimes whether my odd symptoms are because of my two illnesses or simply because of old
age. Should I fight like a tiger, or simply accept that I am no longer the enthusiastic, active person I was when I was 40? My future is so unpredictable it is hard to plan for anything mor than a month in advance. I live from day to day. I still see family and friends and go out for meals, concerts and plays, but with a limited lifespan it is hard to prioritize how to spend the precious time I have left. I don't want to be an Old Lady watching television all day, but if I exert myself too much I end up exhausted. So I have a triple whammy to deal with (my late husband died 5 years ago). Anyone have any comments or suggestions for me? Anyone else dealing with multiple issues at once? I will conclude by wishing evryone a joyous Christmas, and good halth and much happiness in the New Year.
Ellu

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So, at 77, I feel as though I am a juggler and the balls are osteoporosis, high blood pressure, low thyroid function and more. I know I can't keep all of these balls airborne but which one is going to hit the ground.

@ellu. Hi, I just joined this. I relate to your post and your concerns. Im almost 65 and have a rare neurological disorder that is worsening. However, I have adapted to the changed and limitations by expanding my online zoom and streaming life. I now have friends all over the world I engage with daily or weekly in classes of interest to me, seminars , and just chatting time. I don’t have to worry anymore about not being able to get somewhere or have enough energy. I can lay on the couch and connect. Cell phone great too for having conversations via text or voice when I have one
Feel free to reply and I can provide more info. Probably helps I'm a gerontologist, lol! Wishing you all the best! Marnee