That must be very trying and tragic. What should be joyful seems like anything but.

Because of my disability, I don't enjoy group events of any kind. My wife and I are a long way from her family, too far for me to travel. I have no contact with any of my blood relatives.

Locally, I don't really have any friends, so I don't get invited to any gatherings.

When I attend events with my wife's friends, I feel very uncomfortable, and so do they (though they won't admit it).

Staying home isn't so bad.