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Hi – thanks for the response. What about kids – did you have any? My biggest fear is is leaving my wife and this tortured relationship but losing my kids in the process. At least losing their respect for what they might see as deserving their mother. My fear is that I will die alone with no love in my life. Losing my kids is the thing that has kept me trapped in the cage for this long. I do have an old friend that I would much rather be with, but it’s so weird to think of how that would look and feel for everybody. This is so hard to figure out.
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@londonex, I have two grown up sons with families of their own. I can understand how you feel and it’s very difficult to get a sense of being in control, my sons are very important to me and I can’t imagine my life without them. I had a lot of turmoil with their father many years ago and he had tried to make it difficult for me through manipulation of my sons, a very cruel and foolish thing to do because it just created more stress. I think that your children love you more than you know because you’re their father and they still need you to be there, in time things will work out and you’ll see that a lot of your concerns are not true, they will grown up and figure things out for themselves.