@crabby55, I really appreciate your mindset about your home life because you’re fighting back from being dragged down, you have tried everything including therapy but he’s not responding to the process of working on his relationship. I’ve heard many stories about people who retired and went into a depression, other people have great lives and they do not let themselves slow down. I feel sadness because I am sure that you would rather do things with him however, I totally support your choice to do what you need to be happy, bravo to you and enjoy your journey.