@mtstack This is why I don't understand why they want me to go on such aggressive chem. My
primary expressed that to me on my recent visit. Again he is not an oncologist. Because of a few other health issues I need taken care of I have refused. The three doctors, oncologist, Chemo, & radiologist don't seem to be on the same page. My experience made me feel this was my only route. On my first 3 month app. he wasn't aware I had Not started chem. On the next appt he asked the PA to come in and she was telling me I need to do this as she is trying to sell it to me. Chemo called me several times a week about starting when I went in for consultation I told them I am researching it I will let them know this has been four months. Radiologist was pressuring me the same way during that time. I finally agreed to a consultation with the radiologist and I made it clear that I am not starting radiation until after chemo if I decide to do it. He should have known this. Then he ask for a physical at that consultation and wanted to put a port in my neck and during the exam he placed two gold markers in. He said we are just glamming up your popo? He was not the Dr. I was going to be seen but I guess training a new Dr. All this after my CT scan was good and every doctor says I'm in excellent health. I'm concerned, but afraid to move forward yet. I'm going to be 81 soon. Right now I have vein problems and did explain it to my oncologist and asked for a referral but he referred me to my primary Dr. Here is the other issue my Primary is in Wilmington health and all my three doctors are in Novant Health. I hope my concerns stay here as these people have my life in their hands. My second opinion in the beginning recommend Lesser Carboplatin and no Taxol. The oncologist recommended Taxol/+ EBRT and I asked about immunotherapy. Sorry a venting day. My veins are leaking into my legs causing blisters and swelling. I have a serious issue with incontinence and a nurse said I needed to see a urologist another referral. Thank you for your replies I needed a moment to reflect on this situation as I may be over reacting. This on top of my personal life issues are overwhelming.