@judimahoney
Yeh, it can be depressing can't it? Every day you have to reach for something positive. On a positive note, my sister in law has moved to a very nice memory care facility. 15 beds, private, no medicare or medicaid, with a stable staff. A regional assisted living center got bought out by a private investor. The first thing he did was raise fees and reduce staff. The ceo and 7 of the staff members all quit in mass and came to the private one I will use also for my wife when the day comes that I can't take care of her.