You are so right that we have to be our own advocates!!! I have gained alot of knowledge and insight from reading this blog, the AlgaeCal Community page and the individual drug support groups (ie. Fosamax, Evenity, Reclast and Tymlyos, Prolia) on Facebook. I also found a ton of info in Kieth McCormicks book "Great Bones". Hope this helps some. Best wishes on your bone journey.