@briarrose If it helps, I have been in a similar situation, with a Grandson who lives with us, has ADD, and won’t take his medicine. He has somehow alienated his parents, siblings, other grandparents, and cousins and other members of the overall family, to the point, that we are his only family supporters. He is 25, and full of anger and feeling that he was not treated as well as his. siblings, growing up. so he is resentful ( actually, he was treated as well, if not better, by his parents, than his siblings, when he was growing up! We lived nearby, and took care of him and his siblings, many times, while his parents [medical professionals], were working ). We are in our early 80’s, with multiple big time health issues, so, the last thing we need, is to be ‘raising’ a 25 year old ADD Grandson! I empathize with your predicament! We have found ourselves in situations that seem to have no good solutions, at this point! I was writing an autobiography. but have not been able to do much, in the way of preparing for the inevitable future, which I feel compelled that I should do, all because I am now saddled with this situation! Wishing you the best! 🤞!