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Can EMDR work if there are no memories?

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@shmerdloff Could you please explain how this quote pertains to this discussion? I'm confused.

In the book (and film which departed somewhat from the book) Sophie was a Holocaust survivor, Nathan had a serious mental illness ( probably co-occurring substance use disorder and bipolar disorder although Styron wrote that the diagnosis was paranoid schizophrenia) and the narrator of the story is "Stingo" who is an aspiring writer. Stingo is the one who finds the double suicide of Sophie and Nathan and comes to understand that the suffering for some people is unendurable.

I cried throughout and especially at the end of the book. Although I knew the ending of the film I was sobbing so much I couldn't leave the theatre.

Sophie's Choice is a tragic story however Stingo who eventually returns home to the South has matured from the naive writer to a person who has suffered and come to understand the suffering of others.

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Perfect synopsis. Thank you.
It's the closing lines from the movie.

... and the many others who were but a few of the butchered, and betrayed, and martyred children of the earth...
I am reading in these Mayo Connections of people suffering all through life into old age (if not killed) the painful consequences of (parental) tortures. So I liken liken this, in a broader sense than the movie, to an acknowledgement and validation of the suffering of so many of us at the hands of people who were supposed to care for us, and happened not to be officers in a camp, but our "loved" ones.
Hope this helps, and yes, I too cried through the movie.