@standinginfaith
After the memorial service for a friend, her daughters invited all who lingered after the light lunch after the service to come to the mother's home and chose whatever we'd like to have to remember her. The family had already removed everything they wanted. I have a lovely "mola" made by the San Blas indigenous people of Panamá. I worked in Costa Rica for two years and have several molas that I acquired when I was there. The one I got from her was a throw-pillow cover, but it was not stuffed with a pillow and looked like a small piece of fabric. It has a proud place on my living room sofa. And I remember her with fondness.