@jwhitt17
I was horrified reading your post. My heart goes out to you.
I checked The Breast Cancer Center at Menorah Medical Center, Overland Pk., KS - on my "go-to" The US News and World Report - they rank everything from colleges to hospitals to cancer centers.
Unfortunately Menorah Medical Center is not even ranked.
Your health decisions are yours and yours alone. There are no judgements here. I am only making "suggested" advice to you, which is coming from a concerned and kind heart.
I would immediately contact one of the top 5 Cancer Centers in the country for another evaluation, assessment and opinion on your particular cancer situation. I believe - once they know your history - you will have an appointment quickly. Yes, travel is involved. IF I were you - I would choose the facility that is closest to you. Here they are in ranking 1-5.
University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center - Houston, TX
Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Care Center (MSK) - New York, NY
Dana-Farber Brigham Cancer Center - Boston, MA
Mayo Clinic - Rochester, MN
Massachusetts General Hospital - Boston, MA
Now having said what I said - there are no guarantees on anything...even undergoing treatment at the top cancer facilities in the US.
BUT I would place myself in one of the best cancer centers in the country - to give myself the POSSIBILTY/THE CHANCE of the BEST health outcome for myself.
I understand completely how traveling to such facilities is a major headache...I did it myself.
I also had health insurance with a Cancer Resource Program...for re-imbursement on hotels, meals, miles - 1 day before the appointment and 2 days after the appointment, if I was traveling over 100 miles from home which I did. Perhaps you might have the same program in your health insurance? It's worth checking it out.
If you are willing to go outside the box - please don't hesitate. You will be surprised how wonderful the staff is in getting the ball rolling for you. Everything will be organized to a "T" for you. Again, your decision...but perhaps this will give you peace of mind also.
Knowing you did everything possible...first, for yourself! And second, for your loved ones!
No matter how dire a cancer situation may appear to be, THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE IN ALL THE TREATMENTS AVAILABLE. You want the best care you can get!
But must always do want YOU feel is right for you, what is in YOUR heart.
Blessings as you travel your cancer journey. Be strong, be a WARRIOR!