@annben We lost our brother when he was 46. He was at a resort in Santo Domingo when he had a cerebral hemorrhage. He was put on life support until two of my sisters could get down there and make the decision to pull him off because he was not going to recover. When I think of what you must be going through, I think of my own wonderful mom. She lost her son and although it was difficult for us as his siblings, I can’t imagine the pain that she went through. I am sure that you are going through such difficulty. I will say a prayer today for you and for your beloved son. MaryAnn from Boston.