What do you think caused your breast cancer?

Posted by diannetaggart @diannetaggart, Nov 16 10:19pm

This is something I just can not stop thinking about...
I used to put my cell phone in my bra...I drank alot...had alot of stress...I ate alot of processed meats...
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When I found out I had BC, I knew exactly why. I have always known that my grandmother died of breast cancer at the age of 32. I was always told by doctors when I voiced my concern, oh, don't worry about it, it was on your father's side. I had gene testing done after I found out I had BC.... I have the BRCA 1 gene mutation. I believe my BC was delayed in my later life (age 60) because I was a runner that never had a period and when I got married, I was on birth control pills, then had 2 babies. I had the oblation to my uterus when my youngest daughter was 1. Now my oldest daughter was tested and has the BRCA 1 gene same as me and her doctor put her on the birth control pills to prevent the cells separating, hence prevent BC. That's the theory now, anyways. I had TNBC, diagnosed 3 years ago and will be 3 years cancer free next March! I am so grateful for every day and never said, "Why me"....Life is good! God Bless, everyone!

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Profile picture for seathink @seathink

You are not alone in thinking this, hugs! I was in my 30s, tested negative for the genes.

Doing intack with my oncologist, her very first question was if I'd been exposed to asbestos.

Oh boy have I! We used to crawl around in it all the time in high school.

But also I spent 4 years cooking with an unventilated stove in an apartment where the girl who lives there right before me moved out because she *also* got cancer in her 30s...

I've lived next to freeways, a couple miles from some of the largest wheat fields in America, and drank out of plastic everything. I was blonde and spent my teens years dumping J&J baby power with talc on my head every other day as a dry shampoo.

I've lived mostly in 1940s and older houses and we never filtered the lead out or replaced the lead pipes.

I was also pregnant when I palpitated the tumor, which I've learned later ups your chances.

These may or may not add up, something is going on, my friends keep messaging me at 39, 40, 41 as they too are diagnosed.

But lastly I'm this super long post - I also have had a lot of trauma in my life.

When I went through The Grief Recovery Handbook post-treatment, I did a timeline and had 54 separate grief/trauma events in the 38 years before diagnosis.

I grew up in a family where you were punished if you acted in any way that might show that life was not 1000% amazing, and I, as the oldest, had to especially have that attitude for the younger kids.

I think all the environmental damage and emotional damage my body took definitely contributed to the cancer cells growing so quickly. TNBC is something that is pretty high in population groups that have historically had a lot of abuse, and have been regulated to homes and neighborhoods with a lot more pollution. 😢

But! While it was totally awful, for once in my life I got to stand up for myself and my emotions and proclaim that it *was* totally awful!!

I got to scream cry at God and clutch my husband and son together that our baby was so young and I couldn't hold him or care for him, and we just prayed those lamenting prayers. And we did get through it.

I wish you so much healing. I am so sorry.

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I don't think anyone really knows. I never smoked, drank, exercise constantly, didn't run in my family and dx last year. I did go through stressful time at work but it a mystery. It hard to believe after all these years and billions of dollars going to research they have no idea what actual cause is.

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@debdeb1 same thing. Exactly like you. I was the first one in my family. Exercise, I am petite not overweight and never been, I don't think, I have never smoked. Diagnosed last year.

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@angiemal Your attitude is one that we should all aspire to really internalize. I send you blessings…and I’m so thankful that you wrote to us all.

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@mimi09 Thank you so much for reading my message and for your kind words. Being part of this group and sharing my experience is a very important part of my healing. I’m truly grateful for the support and the connection we all find here.

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I too wondered what caused my TNBC at age 67. I had enjoyed perfect health up until then. I did drink plenty of wine, slept with a silicone patch between my breasts to prevent wrinkles, took the heavy duty birth control pills from the 70’s for ten years, and more. When I asked my doctors, they said you’ll never know (as I have no genetic factors)-it’s just bad luck.

I have posted this graphic before, but will again as it illustrates how complicated the question is.

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I too wondered what caused my TNBC at age 67. I had enjoyed perfect health up until then. I did drink plenty of wine, slept with a silicone patch between my breasts to prevent wrinkles, took the heavy duty birth control pills from the 70’s for ten years, and more. When I asked my doctors, they said you’ll never know (as I have no genetic factors)-it’s just bad luck.

I have posted this graphic before, but will again as it illustrates how complicated the question is.

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@cmdw2600 thank you. Chart is very interesting. I myself drank alot everyday for a year and ate alot of processed meats. Makes me think...

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I too wondered what caused my TNBC at age 67. I had enjoyed perfect health up until then. I did drink plenty of wine, slept with a silicone patch between my breasts to prevent wrinkles, took the heavy duty birth control pills from the 70’s for ten years, and more. When I asked my doctors, they said you’ll never know (as I have no genetic factors)-it’s just bad luck.

I have posted this graphic before, but will again as it illustrates how complicated the question is.

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@cmdw2600 thank you for posting this graph, I wish we could blow it up and put it on the front page of this thread.
We cannot control all of these things. I believe in today’s world we can control even less of these things than our mothers did 30 or 40 years ago.
To many chemicals in……….everything. Too much plastic, too fast a pace, and too little peace. It all adds up.
Even if you lived on a mountain top in Tibet, you could still get breast cancer.
I lived a pretty darn healthy lifestyle and carried a tiny amount of body fat, still got it in my 30’s. You can’t buy good genes.
I love the pink ribbons and all the other colors too. It reminds us that there are people going through a lot and we could donate to help, or just smile and say hello in there.
How can we move forward with purpose?

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In reply to @maryliz22503 "Alcohol. Period." + (show)
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Alcohol. Period.

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@maryliz22503
You may be correct, but triple negative means the type does not have the estrogen positive factor. The estrogen positive carries a greater risk from alcohol, I believe.
All of my doctors have said I can have a glass with dinner (which is what I do). My husband has Parkinson’s and enjoying a nice dinner with a glass of wine is one of life’s remaining pleasures.

I know there has been much in the news of late about the risks of alcohol consumption, but I often think of the super agers that consume the Mediterranean diet-including a small amount of wine. It may be viewed that I am rationalizing and perhaps I am, and I definitely don’t want to start controversy on this topic. Just stating my decision after weighing pros and cons.

Here are a couple excerpts from studies on Triple Negative. Click on photo for full view.

I sincerely extend best wishes to all on this site,
Cindy

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