I had RARP at Mayo Rochester this fall. My discharge papers said “you may resume sexual activity once the catheter is removed”. (Of course, follow the directions of your Urologist - not my discharge papers).

I had a catheter for seven days. As soon as I pulled it out, (I was on the self-removal protocol), I tested the equipment and successfully masterbated to
completion. That was 7 days after surgury, without having yet started Cialis or Viagra.

I nearly cried with joy. I had been very worried about ED.

Everyone is different, and I perceive that I am an “outlier” in the timing. I am extremely grateful for that.

I have been masturbating 3-4 times a week since. I am not as hard as previously, but it is hard enough to accomplish what is needed!

Unfortunately, I have developed the pesky side-effect of climaturia. Instead of semen, I shoot urine when I orgasm! I’ve read that this is common after RP and usually resolves within 3 months. I hope to get that resolved with some disciplined Kegel workouts over the next few weeks.

Good luck!