I have had bladder control problems for many years. After my prostatectomy nearly 8 years ago combined with heart failure, lumbar stenosis, and peripheral neuropathy my incontinence has worsened. I have tried many absorbent products from pads, pull ups and diapers. I am currently using InControl Night Defense tape on diapers. At times these could be a little more than necessary. I never know when a little dribble can turn into a full blown flood. I guess I would probably prepare for the worse and hope for the best. I am 78 years old.