@fkm
Being on ADT and/or Zytiga will reduce your testosterone so you will have little desire for sex And it can be hard to get an erection. I’m not sure what drugs you are on.

Some people get implants so they can still get erections,, There is a very high satisfaction rate with people that have done this.

You can also use injections into the penis, which can give you a solid erection. They have Bimix and Trimix Injections that can be used and they work very well for most people.

It is also recommended that people take Cialis daily to keep the blood flow working properly. This is something your surgeon should’ve told you about. Many doctors give them to their patients very soon after surgery, They don’t wait a year for it.

Yes, if you have incontinence, it is serve a pain, but you can wear a condom while having sex.

You don’t have to give up. There are solutions.