@johnbonani Thank you John for replying and your comments really help. I'm very active too and I just want to nip this stiffness in the bud but it doesn't look like that's going to be the case. I do stretch my neck in the morning and anytime I think about my stiff neck. In other words, very often.
I know I should be more patient but it's not one of my virtues. I am doing well considering how soon I'm out and I'm very grateful. I'm wanting to be back to normal too soon. I read how others are really struggling and my heart goes out to them. I should count my blessings, move forward, and trust those that have been through this. Now that I know my stiff neck is here for a long time, I need to do what I can and forget about it.
Honestly, as big as the HPV cancer issue has become on our age group, there should be more organized Support Groups on a local basis. I have two Oncologists who both told me that HPV cancer is becoming more prominent and they are seeing in people in their 80's. I had two ENT doctors tell me the same thing. I'm still dealing with dry mouth, but my tastes are starting to slowing come back. I bought all the Xylimelts tablets you suggested. I also bought All Dry Mouth Spray and I found that very handy. I found that on my own. I also use Act dry mouth wash. I'm listening to you and again your experience helps a lot. Thanks, Tim