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Thank you so very much for such an informative and helpful message. I've read a lot of information about all the possible/probable side effects and although they are very helpful, I'm anxious and nearing exhaustion just thinking about what I need to do. I'm involved with the M.D.Anderson Cancer Center so I know the medical personnel are highly qualified -- I have no concerns about competency. These folks are friendly and knowledgeable and efficient. The anxiety I have so far is related to not knowing the actual process and what side effects I'll have, as well as following all the recommendations I've read. The facial exercises, the swallowing exercises, the fluoride treatments, etc. all seem very overwhelming. I like the idea of starting my own discussion group although I'm not sure how to do that. I appreciate your giving me an idea of the progression of side effects. Even though its overwhelming, it's also helpful so I can become accustomed to what might happen.
Thanks again, Pat

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@pat80 feel good for you that you seem to be taking 'all' in strides -
best wishes & take care!!

@pat80 I appreciate your anxiety but as an individual that went thru 35 radiation treatments and I believe 5 chemo treatments, I would encourage you to limit your focus on all the “possible” side effects. My treatments were over17 years ago now and I can tell you that everyone reacts differently. I’m happily still cancer free and outside of limited taste buds, and my children advising that my singing career is probably on hold (not sure it ever really started except for signing nursery jingles to them), life is pretty good now. Not every negative side effect will happen to you and you’ll work your way thru the ones that do. I still go back to my Cancer Center and talk with individuals that are going thru similar treatments that I had. Take advantage of any support groups you can find…. It really helps the mental side of all this. I wish you well!