Hi @roxy66 ,

Right now, you’re standing at the starting point of a journey you never asked for , the moment when everything feels surreal, when you keep thinking, “What just happened?” You probably wish you could wake up and realize it was all a bad dream. I’ve been there, and I know how terrifying it feels. Hearing the word cancer shakes your entire world.

But please hold on to this truth: breast cancer, while frightening, has very good survival rates. You are not alone in this. In this group, you’ll meet extraordinary women, warriors filled with wisdom, compassion, and hope. Their stories will remind you, again and again, that healing is possible and that life after this can be beautiful.

If I could give you just one piece of advice, it would be this: don’t try to carry it all alone. Lean on your support network : your family, your friends, and the women here. Speak openly about what you feel. Cry if you need to. Let the emotions out; none of them make you weak. Your mental and emotional health are just as important as your treatment. And if you can, reach out to a therapist ( it was one of the best decisions I ever made for myself).

Cancer is not just a physical illness , it’s something that touches every layer of who you are. That’s why healing has to come from every direction: food, movement, emotional care, mental balance, and spiritual peace. Meditation, prayer, or simply quiet moments of gratitude can help you stay grounded in the present. Try not to let your mind wander too far into fear , come back to the facts you know today, and take things one step at a time.

With time, you’ll begin to see that even in this painful season, there are lessons, light, and unexpected strength. If you believe in God, ask Him to walk beside you and help you understand what this experience is here to teach you. You will come out of this stronger, wiser, and more alive than ever before.

Sending you all my love, courage, and prayers for this journey ahead.