@dlgbb We are in the same situation and are of like minds. My relatives said they trust my judgement, but the concerned look on their faces when I chose not to do chemo said it all. They wanted me to do it, and I was going to do it until I learned that the facility at UCLA did not offer icing for neuropathy. I wanted to minimize the damage it would cause. I then setup other appointments with 2 other oncologists (at UC Irvine and MSK) and they explained why "wait and see" was a good approach for me, siting very little lymphovascular invasion. After four months of researching, going back and forth (being 100% sure I'm going to do it and being 100% sure I'm not going to do it), I was exhausted. I finally made the decision to forego chemo and radiation. However, based on other experiences I read about on this site, I think your decision is best.