Hi. I am in a similar situation but a few steps ahead of you. My husband had a prostatectomy in June. Gleason 9 going in with several aggressive features and pathology confirmed the aggressiveness including spread into lymph nodes. PSA check at six weeks post-op at 1.9 and continued to rise. Active lymph nodes verified by new PSMA, He was placed on hormone therapy and PSA has been falling ever since. The next step will probably be chemo in the New Year as the lymph node situation is fairly extensive and radiation may cause too many unfortunate side effects. Have you signed up on a patient portal where your records can be seen? We are receiving care through UCLA and we can see all test results, scans, etc. as soon as they are available. This saves a lot of waiting and worrying about the unknown. You need to be pro active about your care. We have excellent doctors but they are busy with many responsibilities. The support staff at UCLA has been super helpful and prompt in their responses, use them as that is what they are there for. One last thing…my husband also isn’t much interested in the details of any of it either. I know for him it’s a self-protection thing. Wishing you both all the best going forward.