Announcing to the world, or even a few close people, that you've invited yourself in, (as opposed to coming out) is cause for celebration, not dismissal, by them or anyone else! I didn't reveal my authentic self until I reached 68. Of four existing siblings, two are estranged from me and likely never to speak to me again. It's their loss, not mine. Others have embraced my transformation, which adds to the celebratory nature of the event. What it all boils down to is that I truly don't care what others think of me. I can't change their opinions, so I don't even try. It's not worth the effort. There's an old adage my mentor told me years ago, "Don't waste your time trying to teach a pig to sing. It won't work and it just pisses off the pig." I view detractors much the same way. Good luck, dear.